This is how self-responsibility changes everything

You don’t need more patience, waiting for HIM to change.

You need more self-responsibility, sis ✌️

Because it’s not that your partner is emotionally unavailable…

It’s that you keep abandoning yourself every time you avoid saying the hard thing.

It’s not that they don’t understand you…

It’s that you keep explaining instead of expressing how you really feel.

And it’s not that you’re “too much”…

It’s that you’ve never been taught that your full expression is where true connection lies.

The shift that changes ev-er-y-thing?

Stop waiting for them to go first.. and start becoming the woman who chooses emotional courage over comfort 🩷

Your relationship isn’t broken.

It’s waiting for someone to go first… and it needs to be YOU.